The INFJ Door-Slam

AKA Why You Didn’t Realise We Have Rage Issues Is it really that hard to figure out an INFJ? I mean, yeah, we’re not a common breed but bu that doesn’t mean we’re from outer space… does it? The INFJ, whether male or female, seems to be an enigma to everyone including themselves. Yet their…

The Myth of Unconditional Love

Is unconditional love what we should be aiming for in life? Is it actually realistic, or is it a myth perpetuated by media and art. First of all, what does “unconditional” really mean? At it’s most basic level it infers that we place no conditions on the person we love and they place none on…

Human Rights & Accountability

There’s a theory that giving basic human rights to one group of people means that it must be taken from another group of people. If you live in the mind-space that our reality is based on a lack of resources, then this theory makes sense. However, if you have reached the point where you understand…

Why You Keep Being Re-Traumatised

…and how to finally stop. Have you ever noticed yourself drawn to someone who you already know is bad for you, but you just can’t help finding them alluring? Why can’t you seem to want the people who are good for you and be repulsed by the people who’re bad for you? The short answer…

The Tradition of House Warming or Cleansing

When we lived in tight-knit communities, many traditions existed which we based in an understanding of how energy works and how spirit works. Since becoming urbanised and disconnected, a lot of those traditions are now perversions of what they were and monetized as a way of selling more stuff to people who don’t need it….

Why Relationships Really Break Down

We’ve all heard epic tales of unconditional love, they’ve been told for thousands of years. So how come it seems so impossible to have that relationship in real life? What is the crucial component which we seem to be missing? A lot of the older couples I know have a mantra which they never fully…

Lighting Your Fire

Why have you been dimming your light? Are you worried about offending others, or being noticed in a negative way? Or maybe the responsibility and pressure of having others look up to you is daunting? Chances are if you have hidden your inner-light under a bushel, it may be because of criticism, attitudes from others…

Uncomfortable Truths

How many times have you wished you had followed some great advice, or listened to your own intuition about a person or situation? Retrospective wisdom is the bane of most people’s lives, but it doesn’t always have to be. If you could spare yourself the agony of experience over doing the smart thing in the…

The Protective Warrior Empath

Empaths have a major Achilles Heel: they’re protective of vulnerable people and will place themselves into the middle of a struggle, regardless of personal risk, or necessity, or the validity of the conflict. Yes, you read that correctly. Sometimes we get it wrong. I know that I have made this mistake in the past and…

Riding Energy Waves

Manifesting is a little-understood process. There’s a lot of advice and ideas out there but much of it is vague and difficult to follow on a practical level unless you’ve had practice. Some people are instinctively good at it. They feel the vibes and flow with them in a way which most people don’t. This…